Swingers Club Tips for Single Ladies

TSC Tips for Women

Attending TSC alone? Knowing what to bring will make your visit worry-free even if it's your first time.

Here are some ideas that can make your first visit easier, especially for the ladies:

There are lockers available in the club ladies room.  Get yourself a combination lock.  (Standard size, not the teeny-tiny ones, they won't fit the door-loop)

You might want to pack your delicates.  I don't usually drive to the club in my corset ...  stopping for gas shouldn't make you feel like the town peep-show.  Especially when driving alone, you'll want to be dressed appropriately if you have a flat tire, etc.

I haven't ever had ANY problem with my purse or anything, but I carry a small club bag for  just my cigs and personal cards, lipstick and a pen.  I leave my full purse with cell phone, keys and wallet in the locker.  Dance and play and mingle without one eye on your stuff.

The lockers are intended for 1-time 1-night use, but if you're a real regular - like every week - it's ok to leave it long term. I keep an extra nighty thingie so I can stop by TSC anytime I'm in Nashville without having to go home to Clarksville to get my play-stuff.

I also leave my leftover alcohol in my locker rather than schleping it back home. Keeps me from feeling like I need to drink that one last beer, or drive home with an open bottle in car.  Hairspray, an emergency tampon, (yes, the reality boogie-man jumps us here too!)  condoms, small pac of those Clorox or Lysol sanitizing wipes for your play surfaces if you wish, etc.  I keep a small vibe so I don't have to schlepp that around in the car too.

About that ride

Oh!  Speaking of driving.  My personal feeling here..  but if you're going first time single, and have guy friends from online that are also going, people like to pair up to make first visit.  I think a single gal should drive herself.  Riding with some guy you don't know that well can make you feel like you're his date for the night, obligated in some way, and you loose the freedom to come or go as you please, or play with someone else.

Why go to a swingers club only to bring the cultural "monogomous dating" theme in with you?  pfft!  Shed that shit.  You're going expressly to experience edge dating.  Maybe your first visit should feel slighty naughty and dangerous and fiercly independant and out of character.  That's all part of the fantasy of exploring this stuff. :D

~bugn

(These tips apply to the TSC Swingers Club in Nashville, but you'll find they apply most anywhere.  Call your local club to ask about lockers and their policy on singles attendance)